Recently Randal and I were sitting on his front porch, chatting away. Somehow we got onto the topic of his extended stays in the Philippines and the starving children he saw there. He told me he’d exit a grocery store or restaurant only to be approached by children begging for food with one hand outstretched, the other patting their empty stomachs. Randal was generous and helped when he could.
I wondered what it would be like to be hungry and then be given something to eat by a complete stranger. For several days, those images haunted me and I contemplated. I thought about how yes, our country has many problems, but thankfully witnessing starvation every time I step outside is not one of them. Seeing hunger, especially in children, would be gut-wrenching. I can imagine few experiences worse than being a mother who witnesses her child die for lack of food and the feeling of being completely helpless.
We have plenty of issues in this country. We worry about grocery prices, the cost of gas, politics or whether AI might one day wipe us out. But we don’t worry about starving to death or watching someone else starve. I am grateful to live in the United States where I am spared that experience. Food resources exist for those in need — SNAP, the school lunch program and food banks. There may be hunger, but not starvation. In America, an estimated 120 billion pounds of food goes to waste every year. We’re drowning in excess. Ironically, we face the opposite problem of starvation: obesity. But that’s another column.
For some reason, Randal’s story took the idea of being grateful to a whole new level. I’m thankful I can eat what I want, when I want. The variety in my pantry astounds me: four kinds of mustard, five types of rice, 15 heirloom bean varieties, six different flours — the list goes on. I’ve appreciated for a long time the huge array of choices available in the grocery store. I’ve never gone to bed hungry or wondered if I’d eat the next day. If I were constantly hungry, creativity, pleasure and fun wouldn’t exist in my life. I’d probably spend my whole day wondering where my next meal was coming from.
Randal’s story is a powerful reminder. In the United States, we are free from one of the most crushing problems a person could have (truly, God bless America). Keep that in mind the next time you feel overwhelmed by our state of current affairs. Despite all our domestic challenges, at least none of us have to say no to an emaciated child looking for a handout.
